Approach Rather Than Avoid

Episode Guest:

Dr. Kerry Kinney

Dr. Kerry Kinney, a psychologist at Vanderbilt University, joined co-hosts Meagen Rosenthal, Ph.D, and Alexis Lee for The Mayo Lab’s seventh episode of Season 2. Dr. Kinney shared about anxiety, emotional regulation, and the challenges of addressing mental health with its increased social media context.

According to Dr. Kinney, anxiety, as opposed to fear, is “more future-focused [and] tends to be a little bit more cognitive as well, so it involves a lot of worry and a lot more of that kind of thing where it’s just more thought-focused rather than that fear.” 

Because anxiety is so common, Dr. Kinney shared the markers one should look out for to inform whether someone should search for treatment, such as if anxiety is getting in the way of important parts of life. Getting treatment, she said, is usually the hardest part. Symptoms often get better when people receive the help they need.

“It’s treatable, it’s changeable, it doesn’t have to be a forever kind of thing,” she said.

Dr. Kinney explained how one gold-standard treatment for anxieties, exposure therapy, can help by getting closer to what a patient is fearful of.

“When we want to avoid getting wet, we use an umbrella. So it makes sense, and it's intuitive, that you would want to avoid something that causes anxiety. But, that said, that sort of reinforces these thoughts that the situation is dangerous or that you can't cope with it, and then we see that over time, anxiety gets worse and worse.”


“If you’re feeling avoidant of something that is important to you, and if avoiding it is getting in the way of you reaching your goals or living a fulfilling life, try approaching instead of avoiding … I would say approach instead of avoid, and really be mindful of how we talk about these things and how that might affect other people as well and how they feel too.”

— Dr. Kerry Kinney


In a conversation around stigma, Dr. Rosenthal asked Dr. Kinney whether there has been a downside from the normalization we see around mental health and anxiety in the media today. Has it added to misinformation? Dr. Kinney thinks it can.

One issue she’s seen has been an increased sense of identifying with mental health diagnoses in a way that can be harmful. “It kind of reinforces this idea that this can't be changed,” she said, “and that is something that I feel really strongly about, because we know that it can. We know that people can get better, and it's important to me that people know that.”

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